nothing external is going to change what is a internal state of affairs. what balances is what comes from clear thinking without guile, a open heart willing to see, hear, and know truth; an eagerness to become the best men we can become, as it reveals itself to our mind, body and soul. This latter comes from seeking the highest guidance we can, via the Great Father of all that is. Ask Him to keep you in balance, open your mind, and fill your heart with truth and love and you will become a walking and fiery sun.
This is the high way of the highway.